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What you focus on is what happens in your life.

The choice is yours.

What you focus on is what happens in your life.

When you focus on everything that is negative, the things that hurt you the most, the things you want so badly but you sabotage yourself so they don’t happen, the things that go wrong all the time & the list goes on, ya those things are going to happen big time!

But if you focus on the good stuff, with gratitude behind that focus, those things will happen big time!

Chronic complaining is like a disease.

I should know, I did it for a very long time when I worked in an industry I detested.

I worked in that industry for 20yrs & I was miserable.

I threw down on complaining hard core.

And I lived in a miserable space for those years.

I allowed that negativity to take over my being.

And then one day I couldn’t do it anymore.

I hated the sound of my own voice when I would spit those nasty words out.

I felt ugly on the inside which did flow to the outside.

It was not a good place to be.

I dug in and did the work to change myself from the inside out.

That was not a fun process.

Realizing my finger pointing had more fingers pointing back at me than I did to someone else.

Complaining & blaming are an ugly team.

But they are bonded together.

Stronger than anything.

The only thing that can break them up is the partnership of gratitude & thankful.

This dynamic duo can break up any toxic pair it comes across.

And I finally chose them, thankful & gratitude.

They have been with me all along the way.

And they are with you as well.

Maybe it’s time to shine some light on them & let them finally grow!

You have a 💩 load more to be grateful about than you do to complain and be negative about if you really look at your life.

So switch up your focus.

Look at the good and let the bad take a back seat.

It’s time.

You deserve it.

So does everyone else around you.

Cause if you didn’t already realize it, nobody likes a chronic complainer.

You are better than that.

I know you can do it.

Because I did.

So can you.

Make today the kind of day you choose it to be ❤️ #wednesdaywisdom #changeyou #itsyourchoice

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