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There is always a choice

And if we allowed our fear to run the show, well we know which choice would be made.

We would stay down, wallowing in self pity & never get back up.

That’s why we don’t allow that to happen for any length of time.

Our mind is a peculiar place to be.

Our thoughts can go so dark.

And hopeless.

And not think there is anyway out of the messes we create.

That is why we have to manipulate that big old brain.

We have to feed it with good.

We have to fuel it with positive energy.

We have to do this so we can pick ourselves back up off the ground.

Even when we don’t fully believe it, it is a must.

Staying stuck is not an option.

The only way out of any mess we create is up.

Not down further.

Up is the only option.

No matter what life is throwing at you, you will get through it.

Especially with the holidays coming up.

We do not live in the Hallmark channel on TV.

Our lives are not a holiday movie where it all works out in the end.

Families are complicated.

Relationships are hard.

Distance plays a part in why you can’t be together.

Finances can suck so you can’t afford the things.

This list can go on and on.

And it’s easy to become a blubbering mess.

Not seeing how it will get better.

Nothing is permanent.

It will get better.

So take a breathe.

Pick yourself up.

Dust yourself off.

And keep moving up.

You’ve got this.

Yes you do.

Make today the kind of day you choose it to be ❤️ #mondaymotivation #onwardsandupwards

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