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It’s Easy Being A Critic

It’s easy to be a critic.

Like super easy.

It’s what everyone does.

You’ve done it and so have I.

We need less criticism in this world.

Especially when it comes to our own selves.

I have no problem being everyone else’s biggest encourager.

I do, however, have a huge problem being my own.

It happened yesterday morning.

I was being very critical of myself when my hubby & I were talking about Mother’s Day.

I am extremely critical of myself on that day in particular.

And it stems from the past, not the present.

It seems to be one of the things I can’t stop being critical of myself about.

I have always gone with the story I was not a good mom.

And it has stuck with me.

I’ve got a list a mile long that I could justify those thoughts with.

And continue to be critical of myself.

Or I could throw the checklist I made for myself away for good.

And I could start encouraging myself to change those thoughts.

Perhaps today is that day.

Today is the day I replace a critical thought with an encouraging thought.

Try it, just for today as a start.

Whatever it is you are most critical about yourself, turn it into an encouraging thought.

Catch yourself.

Before you start down the path to bashing yourself.

And remember that you are not what your negative brain wants you to believe.

You are the exact opposite of that critical thought.

Let’s start being our own biggest cheerleaders.

And let’s stop being our own worst critic.

We are more than what we believe about ourselves.

And it’s time to start living that way.

Criticism you are getting kicked to the curb today!

You are no longer welcome around these parts.

Don’t let the door hit ya in the 🍑 on the way out.

Today is the day we start cheering for ourselves.

Even if it seems weird.

Today is the day we start.

Make today the kind of day you choose it to be #encouragement #nonegativity #acoffeewithcarla

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