Our Inspirational Blog
Ever heard of an overnight sensation?It’s not a real thing.
A friend of mine always says “I’m an overnight sensation 25yrs in the making” 😂
And I laugh because it’s sooooo freaking true!!
Nobody changes overnight.
Not one single person.
It’s takes days, months and years.
So 🛑 rushing yourself.
🛑 being so flippin hard on yourself.
🛑 all the self loathing because you aren’t where you want to be yet.
We are always trying to get to the next stage in our lives.
We always want more.
How about if we 🛑 for just a moment and look around at where we are, who is surrounding us & where we are right at this moment?
Are you further ahead than you were 5 years ago?
Are the people around you cheering you on?
Are you happy?
If the answer to all of those is yes, awesome 👏
If the answer is no to any of those questions, it’s time to get VERY honest with yourself.
And make the changes you need to make.
But it all takes time, all of it.
While you are growing forward always take some time to look around and enjoy where you are right now.
If you are so busy striving for the next phase or stage in your life, you are going to miss the good things you have right now.
So slow down, it’s not a race.
The changes you want will happen.
When the time is right.
Patience is a virtue and it is how you react when things aren’t going your way that speaks to who you are as a person at your core.
Take a breath, pause & look around.
Every day is a new day to grow forward.
Just remember to take yourself off auto-pilot to take in the day you are in.
You will get to your destination eventually, we all do.
Take time to enjoy the ride.
Make today the kind of day you choose it to be ❤️ #acoffeewithcarla #thursdaythoughts
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